Being the day before Thanksgiving, I have a 30-minute “task” for you that will make you feel good and bring you many future blessings.
Step One: Take out five sheets of paper. Nice stationery, if you have it.
Step Two: Think about the people in your life who help you. And not just in the obvious ways. For example, think of someone who:
- makes you laugh
- inspires you
- you can count on, no matter what
- has taught you a valuable lesson
- you love
Step Three: Handwrite a thank you note to each of them. It should take no more than two or three minutes per person. Ten to 15 minutes to write all five letters.
Step Four: Address five envelopes.
Step Five: Take them to the post office and mail them.
Question: Do I have to write them on paper and post them? Won’t e-mail do just as well?
Problem: I’m not good at writing letters. This will take me all day!
Solution: The letters don’t need to be long, perfervid, or poetic. Just two, three, or four sentences that express what each person means to you. Be brief, but be specific. Identify — as simply, truly, and precisely as you can — the reason for your gratitude.
To make it extra easy, you can use this as your template:
I was thinking of you this afternoon and found myself grinning in public. It occurred to me that you have always brought a smile to my face. I wanted you to know that I am grateful for it.
As I said, you will get two benefits from this exercise. You will have a good, warm feeling when you write the letter. And you will be encouraging and deepening a relationship that is good for you.[Ed. Note: Mark Morgan Ford was the creator of Early To Rise. In 2011, Mark retired from ETR and now writes the Palm Beach Letter. His advice, in our opinion, continues to get better and better with every essay, particularly in the controversial ones we have shared today. We encourage you to read everything you can that has been written by Mark.]