When You Shouldn’t Give Friends a Helping Hand
“You know so-and-so… really? Well, I have this product/idea/freelance offer that I’d love for you to pass on. It’s no problem, right? Even better… could you give me his e-mail address so I can get in touch?”
An old friend or new acquaintance finds out that you’re “connected” and they want you to open up your network – and risk your reputation – to promote their project.
Should you do it? That depends. It can be uncomfortable to say no (especially face-to-face). But say yes only if the request passes all three of the following tests:
- You feel the project has merit.
- Your contact will benefit from hearing about it.
- You can personally vouch for the person you are referring or recommending. (Never agree to help the friend of a friend.)
[Ed. Note: For more straightforward advice on avoiding and overcoming sticky situations like these, check out ETR's monthly newsletter dedicated to helping you "unscrew" your life.]
Thank you very smart. Not be giving your friends info is the most respectful thing to do for a friend. Before rvrn thinking about doing this you
are right as those three questions and I would go one step further ask my friend if he or she wants to receive amd if is OK with them by all measn do iy. Thanks feliperal